By Geraldine Chery |
Each of us has a distinctlve individual purpose for our talents and gift. But sometimes we stand at a crossroads, wondering which way is the best way for making use of all that we are and have to offer.
Here are seven powerful questions to ask when trying to discern your very unique purpose:
1) Talents - What are you good at? There are many things you could be doing in life. To narrow down the possibilities, honestly assess what it is you do very well. Think in terms of your personal attributes (conflict resolution, negotiation, leadership), as well as tangible skills.
2) What do you like to do? What activity or job would I be willing to do even if I didn’t get paid for it? Money is important for sustaining your lifestyle. But purpose drives deeper, beyond financial reward, to tap into the spirit and soul. Satisfaction, then, springs from an emotional connection, as well as a monetary one.
3) What do others like about you? What do others like best about me? Sometimes, we cannot see ourselves as clearly as others do. Trusted friends, family members, or mentors can often help put us on the right path just by letting us know how they see our strengths and talents.
4) What accomplishments bring you the greatest joy? What accomplishments have brought me the greatest joy? Perhaps you do not need to “reinvent the wheel” when seeking direction, but rather can find it in by building upon the things you achieved previously.
5) What activity makes you a better person? What activity makes you a better person? If you’ve ever had a job that dragged you down and made you angry, bored, or depressed, you know how awful it is to work in such an environment. Your purpose calls you to grow, blossom, and deepen the best qualities you possess.
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