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3 Questions That Will Guide You To The Right Partner

08/29/2014 09:28

By Shelly Bullard Many of us mindlessly fall into relationships. I know I've done it several times myself. Hang out, hang out, hang out … OH! We're in a relationship now. While essentially there's nothing wrong with this, the reality is that the more intentional you are about finding a...

Are You In Love, Or Are You Emotionally Dependent?

08/22/2014 09:07

B Margarette Paul | How often have you thought you were truly in love, only to lose those in-love feelings after a few months? Have you believed you were in love but discovered that you were 'in need' instead? Emotional Dependency · Are...

What To Do When Your Sex Life Gets Dull: A Couples Therapist Explains

07/11/2014 20:05

By Esther Perel For the past 30 years I've worked as a couples therapist in New York City. One complaint rings true across all cultures: couples claim to love each other as much as ever, but their sex lives have become dull and devoid of eroticism. So why does good intimacy not guarantee...

3 Changes That Put The Spark Back In My Marriage

07/04/2014 18:49

By Rebecca Buttler | July 4, 2014 | Recently, I witnessed Dr. Sue Johnson give a monumental lecture about love. In a most modest and unsuspecting way, she gave every attendee something to think about. Through her research, Dr. Johnson has developed a...

How To Know If It's A Rebound Or Real Love

06/20/2014 09:01

By Sheryl Paul | June 20, 204 | I'm frequently asked by clients both in new and long-term relationships how to determine if the relationship is a rebound or real love. The term "rebound" carries quite a negative stigma in our cultural lexicon, and armchair psychoanalysts tend to throw...

5 Communication Mistakes That Kill Relationships

06/13/2014 03:43

By Stephen Guise | June 13, 2014 | Communication problems often lead to relationship issues, which is no great surprise. If you can't communicate with your partner, how can you cultivate a sense of closeness and love? Still, basic communication challenges often lead to...

9 Qualities Of People Who Are Great At Relationships

06/06/2014 22:56

By Caroline Zwick | June 6, 2014 | Ever wonder how some people have amazing relationships without even really having to work for them? Well, there's more to it than just magic. In fact, it has very little to do with what they DO and much with who they let themselves BE. Here are 9...

Walking Away from a Toxic Relationship

06/04/2014 23:36

By Anonymous | Breathe again... Is your significant other constantly putting you down physically, mentally or emotionally? If so, chances are you’re in a toxic relationship. Follow these eight steps to walk away for good. Time for some serious self-reflection It’s time to be honest with...

What I Wish I'd Known Before My First Breakup

05/23/2014 21:16

By Hali Tsotetsi | May 23, 2014 | During my first breakup, I remember feeling like I'd failed. Feeling confused by the fact that I loved someone so much but nothing good had come out of us being together for a while. I felt exhausted by drama and heartache. I don't think I would...

8 Ways To Put The Spark Back In Your Relationship

05/18/2014 21:28

By KELLEE KHALIL | Whether you're engaged, a newlywed, or long married, there are times when we can all use a little help breathing life into our relationships. Sometimes we take each other for granted, or the stress of wedding planning or buying a house is wreaking havoc on our...

How to Make Space In Your Life for Your Soulmate

05/16/2014 21:18

By Emilia F. Sam | Love, in all its forms, is the one thing we all need. Soulmates exist in various types of relationships. However, for the purpose of this article, the term soulmate exclusively refers to the relationship between lovers. Some have found these sacred...

How To Repair A Good Relationship Before It's Too Late

05/09/2014 21:20

By Esther Boykin | When it comes to relationships and romance, the key to long-lasting happiness is usually prevention, not repair. It’s far easier to develop the skills and good habits to keep your love life working than it is to fix things when they’ve begun to fall apart. But the...

19 Questions To Ask Yourself After A First Date

05/02/2014 21:23

By John Kim | There's more to a first date than just chemistry, assuming you're looking for more than just Mr. or Ms. Right Now. Here's what I believe are the most important questions to ask yourself. Note: (Do not copy this list and bring it with you on the date so you have something to...

How To Break The Pattern Of Choosing "Unavailable" Partners

04/30/2014 20:57

By Shelly Boullard | One of the biggest complaints people have in relationships is that they choose "unavailable" partners. We all have different ideas about what "unavailable" is, but for the most part it centers around the following: · A...

15 Habits Of Healthy Couples

04/25/2014 21:25

By Amita Patel | "What makes a relationship healthy?" It can be challenging to spot the signs when you're enjoying romantic dinners, handmade cards, and mind-blowing sex. I took a look back at the things I've done (and had done to me) to present you with the 15 habits of healthy couples. 1....

7 Conversations To Have Before You Get Married

04/04/2014 21:30

By Kallee Khalil | Many couples live together long before their wedding day, meaning they've already figured out who's going to wash dishes and clean the bathroom, and which mid-fight button-pushing can send a small disagreement into nuclear territory. There are, however, some...

5 Ways To Spark Passion In Your Long-Term Relationship

03/14/2014 21:33

By Shelly Bullard | Passion makes life good. It's the essence of desire: feeling excited! Experiencing a fire within you! Unfortunately, passion often fades in long-term relationships (day-to-day life gets predictable … and boring), and while this experience is somewhat...

5 Signs It's Time To Let Go Of A Toxic Friendship

03/07/2014 21:35

By Louise Jensen | Last night I was due to have a meal out with one of my oldest friends. As our time to meet drew closer, I got a nervous feeling in my stomach. Was I excited? No, the feeling was dread. I knew exactly how the evening would pan out. We would meet....

3 Questions To Ask When Finding A Good Partner Is Difficult

02/28/2014 21:37

By Caroline Zwick | We all want to find, receive, and give love in our lives. Love, connection, and intimacy with another human being give us meaning, strength, courage, and motivation. Love also grounds us, gives us calmness, and creates a net of safety and comfort. On...

5 Things Every Smart, Single Man Is Looking for in a Woman

02/21/2014 21:41

By Jacob Tomsky | It's late Friday night, and the bar in which I find myself is like an ancient ship's lower deck: dark wood and barrels. The band performing in the far corner matches the mood. It's a jug band, which is exactly what it sounds like: a few guys drawing bassy notes...

5 Things I Learned About Love From A 60th Wedding Anniversary

02/14/2014 21:43

By Mandy Burstein | I recently had the privilege of attending my grandparents’ 60th wedding anniversary. Relatives, friends and colleagues spanning six decades all descended upon their small town in Virginia to pay tribute to this great accomplishment. Being their...

5 Steps To Attract A Great Partner

02/07/2014 21:45

By Julia Ford-Carther | A common complaint among my friends is that they always find themselves in the same dating predicaments with different people. They say, “Why is this happening again? Why do I keep running into the same type of guy?” If you’re...

The Needy Friend Survival Guide: Learn how to tip-toe the line between "I'm here for you" and "I'm sick of you."

01/17/2014 21:47

By David Sbarra | Here’s the scene: You have a friend or a family member who calls and texts all the time needing your advice about how to deal with a crisis. Sometimes, this person just wants a little support. Sometimes, he or she calls about one thing over and over again. Sometimes, he or...

How to Find Love: A Plan

01/10/2014 21:52

By Viren Swami | Jan 10, 2014 | Use the power of proximity to find romance. So far in my column, I’ve extolled the power of proximity on romantic relationships—the simple idea that we’re much more likely to form close relationships with people who are nearby. I’ve also suggested...

It’s Time to Assess Your Relationships

01/03/2014 21:57

By David Sbarra | As the year comes to a close, follow these steps to reflect on your relationships and see which ones to carry into the new year (and which ones to leave in the past). As 2013 comes to a close, many of us are taking stock of the important things in our lives. Am I doing...

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